Find a 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Certified Coach
When your marriage feels stuck, disconnected, or strained, it can be hard to know where to begin.
The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® framework helps couples identify where the marriage is under strain and choose one practical next step toward rebuilding connection.
The coaches listed below have been trained in this framework and can help you move from confusion to clarity, from blame to structure, and from disconnection to intentional action.
Meet Alisa DiLorenzo
Alisa DiLorenzo is the co-creator of The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and co-host of the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show.
Since 2010, she has helped couples around the world strengthen their marriages through practical tools, honest conversations, biblical wisdom, and a clear framework for building extraordinary connection.
She created The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Certified Coaching Program to equip coaches, pastors, mentors, and marriage-minded leaders to help couples with greater clarity, confidence, and care.
Brad Pecherzewski
Stronger Together Marriage
Who I Work With:
Married Couples, Engaged / Premarital Couples, Blended Families
What I Help With:
Conflict Resolution, Feeling Like Roommates, Sexual Intimacy Challenges
About Brad:
My approach is warm, compassionate, and centered on you as a couple. With experience as a Family Nurse Practitioner and education in theology, I take time to truly listen and understand your unique story. You can expect a safe, supportive space where you feel genuinely heard, respected, and gently guided with practical tools to strengthen your relationship.
Melanie Witkowski
Mind Change Consulting
Who I Work With:
Married Couples, Women, First Responder Couples
What I Help With:
Communication, Conflict Resolution, Feeling Like Roommates
About Melanie:
My husband and I felt more like roommates than soulmates. After researching the 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Framework, we began applying it, and it transformed our marriage. Today, I use this framework to help couples uncover root issues, redirect conversations, strengthen connection, and discover practical tools for lasting growth.
Chris Witkowski
Mind Change Consulting
Who I Work With:
Married Couples, Men, First Responder Couples
What I Help With:
Communication, Conflict Resolution, Feeling Like Roommates
About Chris:
Great leadership starts at home. My marriage has taught me that strong relationships aren’t built by having everything figured out; they’re built by growing together. I combine those lessons with the Six Pillars of Intimacy® framework and practical leadership principles to help couples strengthen their connection and build an extraordinary marriage.
Mitch and Jenna Buenger
Mitch and Jenna Marriage Coaching
Who We Work With:
Married Couples, Engaged / Premarital Couples, First Responder Couples
What We Help With:
Communication, Rebuilding Trust, Spiritual Connection
About Mitch & Jenna:
As marriage coaches, parents to three boys, and first responder/healthcare professionals, we walk alongside married, engaged, and military/first responder couples. When working with us, you can expect confidential, empathetic guidance to improve communication, rebuild trust through life's trials, and deepen your spiritual connection together.
Andrew & Crystal Pitts
Covenant Connection
Who We Work With:
Married Couples, Engaged / Premarital Couples, Ministry Couples & Church Leaders
What We Help With:
Communication, Feeling Like Roommates, Sexual Intimacy Challenges
About Andrew & Cyrstal:
We help couples strengthen connection, navigate conflict, and deepen intimacy through a Christ-centered, couple-to-couple approach. Couples can expect a warm, conversational space where both perspectives are heard, along with personalized, practical tools to better understand one another and build a stronger, more connected marriage.
Bryon & Susan Morris
The Cornerstone Coach
Who We Work With:
Married Couples, Engaged / Premarital Couples, Ministry Couples & Church Leaders
What We Help With:
Communication, Feeling Like Roommates, Spiritual Connection
About Bryon & Susan:
After 40 years of marriage, raising four sons, careers, and ministry, we know what it’s like to feel more like roommates than soulmates. The 6 Pillars of Intimacy transformed our marriage, and we’d love to help you rediscover connection, deepen intimacy, and create your ONE Extraordinary Marriage.
Jess Kitura
The Holistic Marriage Coach
Who We Work With:
Married Couples, Women, Blended Families
What We Help With:
Conflict Resolution, Financial Conflict, Sexual Intimacy Challenges
About Jess:
From my roots on a Canadian farm to now raising three children in Switzerland, my journey has always been grounded in growth, presence, and connection. As a yoga instructor and certified marriage coach, I combine mindfulness with practical wisdom to help couples turn daily friction into lasting resilience. Having used these exact tools to transform my own 13-year marriage, I guide partners in building their own deeply connected, soul-nourishing relationships.
Coaching Is Not Therapy
The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Certified Coaching Program is a practical coaching and leadership framework. It is not therapy, clinical counseling, trauma treatment, addiction treatment, or a replacement for licensed professional care.
Certified Coaches are trained to stay within the scope of coaching and refer when a situation requires specialized support.