How did your faith journey lead to the creation of The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®?Tony and Alisa have been followers of Jesus since 2000, and their faith has taken them on quite the journey over the last 25 years of marriage! The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® was born during a speaking engagement at their local church in San Diego back in 2020. They were sharing some of their story—the real struggles and victories—and weaving it together with their faith journey. The response was incredible! Couples from all walks of life connected with this framework, and at that point they realized God was using their journey to help others strengthen their marriages. It's amazing to see how God has taken their messy moments and transformed them into a message that's now helping thousands of couples create their extraordinary marriage.
Transform Your Church's Marriage Ministry
Bring The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® to Your Congregation
Discover the Framework That's Transforming Marriage Nationwide
Does your church community need practical, biblically-aligned marriage enrichment that actually works? Are you looking for speakers who can address the real challenges couples face with authenticity, vulnerability, and proven solutions?
Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo bring their groundbreaking framework, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®, directly to your church to equip couples with the tools they need to create extraordinary marriages.
What Pastors Are Saying
“Our marriage encounter with Tony and Alisa was truly life-changing. Their wisdom, honesty, and practical advice gave us a fresh perspective on our relationship, helping us strengthen our communication, deepen our intimacy, and prioritize each other in new ways.
The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® was insightful and transformative. The insights they shared weren’t just theories—they were real, actionable steps that transformed not only our marriage but also the marriages of so many others who attended. We’ve seen couples reconnect, rebuild trust, and rekindle their love, all because of the powerful message Tony and Alisa deliver. If you’re looking for a way to grow closer as a couple, this experience is a must for your church!”
—Randy Phillips, Pastor of LifeFamily Churches, founder of PHILLIPS CRAIG &DEAN
"The couples of Calvary Church were impacted in a very positive way by The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® conference. Six Pillars opens up conversations for couples to reflect and inspect their marriages, bringing hard-to-talk-about issues to the surface and giving hopeful direction and resolve for a better future. Tony and Alisa are authentic and real in sharing their own story of life transformation both spiritually and in their marriage, and it will bless the couples of your church. I recommend this content for couples who are married, engaged, and even dating."
—Ps. Marty Sloan, Calvary Church, Naperville, IL
"After my wife began listening to the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Podcast, she told me about Tony and Alisa. She was struck by how bold, honest, Biblical, and funny they were. On a recent vacation we read The 6 Pillars Of Intimacy® book together, and we were blown away by how simple yet profound the framework was. It was so practical and really helped us identify areas of our marriage that needed attention. We knew God wanted us to bring them in to help many more couples and singles in our church repair some of the 'cracks' in the pillars of their relationships too! We are so blessed we did as so many of us walked away with practical handles to repair the 'cracks' by the grace of God. We highly recommend bringing them in to serve your church as well!"
—Ps. Todd and Denise Doxzon, Love Church, Omaha, NE
"As a pastor, I was looking for a practical, engaging, and Christian perspective on strengthening marriages. There are so many voices telling us to do this and try that to save or enrich our marriages, but how do we know for sure if what they're teaching is: #1 Good and #2 Effective. Having Tony & Alisa speak about The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® provided our couples with principles that have enriched and helped heal marriages. Their down-to-earth presentation resonated with our couples, young and old. It's wonderful to see marriages strengthened and couples growing in God."
—Ps. Abidan Shah, Clearview Church, Henderson, NC
—Ps. Leann Cherry, The Connecting Co., Tulsa, OK
The 6 Pillars of Intimacy ® Framework
Emotional Intimacy: Building deeper connection through communication
Physical Intimacy: Creating closeness through non-sexual loving touch
Financial Intimacy: Developing unity in money matters
Spiritual Intimacy: Growing together in faith
Recreational Intimacy: Strengthening bonds through quality time
Sexual Intimacy: Nurturing physical connection in God-honoring ways
Our biblically-grounded framework addresses the six pillars that create the foundation for an extraordinary marriage.
Each pillar addresses a critical component of marriage that, when strengthened, creates a resilient, joyful, and Christ-centered relationship.
Meet Your Guides
Meet Your Guides
Tony & Alisa
Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo are sought-after speakers, hosts of the #1 marriage podcast, and bestselling authors of "The 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to an Extraordinary Marriage." Having overcome significant challenges in their own marriage—including pornography addiction, financial crisis, and child loss—they share from a place of authentic experience and biblical truth.
Our approach blends scriptural wisdom with practical application, giving couples clear pathways to strengthen their marriages across all pillars of intimacy.
Get practical support from marriage educators who have helped thousands of marriages create their extraordinary marriage.
Speaking Formats
We offer flexible options to meet your church's specific needs:
Marriage Conferences: Half-day, full-day, or weekend events
The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Masterclass: 2-hour interactive experience
Virtual Options: Live-streamed events for broader participation
Sunday Services: Inspiring messages for your entire congregation
LifeFamily Church, Austin, TX
Love Church, Omaha, NE
What Makes Our Ministry Different
Scripture-Based: Teachings are firmly rooted as followers of Jesus
Authentic Testimony: We share openly about our own journey of marriage transformation
Practical Framework: Couples leave with clear, actionable steps they can implement immediately
Accessible to All: Content connects with couples at any stage of marriage or faith journey
Lasting Impact: Churches report continued marriage growth months after our events
Expert Guidance: Drawing from years of experience coaching thousands of couples
