Are you feeling disconnected from your wife? Struggling to understand what she needs? Not sure how to lead your marriage to the extraordinary connection you both deserve?
You're not alone—and there's a way forward.
For over 15 years, Tony DiLorenzo has been guiding husbands just like you toward creating extraordinary marriages. As co-founder of ONE Extraordinary Marriage with his wife Alisa, and host of their #1 marriage podcast, Tony brings a unique perspective that specifically addresses what husbands need.
Tony has personally navigated 28+ years of marriage through:
Financial hardship and rebuilding
Sexual intimacy challenges
Communication breakdowns
Parenting conflicts
Career transitions
And much more
Unlike generic marriage advice, Tony's approach is tailored specifically for husbands who want to lead positive change in their marriage using The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® framework.
Clear understanding of what your wife is actually asking for
Practical communication skills that break through barriers
Strategies for deeper connection across all 6 pillars of intimacy
Leadership approaches that strengthen your marriage
Confidence in addressing difficult marriage topics
Methods to reignite passion and rebuild trust
A personalized roadmap for your specific marriage challenges
"My wife needs to change too. Will this really help if I'm the only one working on our marriage?"
One spouse taking action often creates a positive ripple effect. Tony has witnessed thousands of marriages transform when the husband takes the lead in making positive changes. Your actions can inspire your wife to respond differently, even if she's not initially on board.
"I'm not good at talking about feelings. Is this going to work for me?"
Tony's approach is designed specifically for men who aren't naturally comfortable with emotional conversations. You'll learn practical approaches that fit your communication style while still creating the connection your wife desires.
"We've tried counseling before and it didn't work."
Traditional counseling often lacks practical application. Tony's coaching is built on real-world strategies that have worked for thousands of husbands. This isn't about analyzing the past—it's about creating actionable change for the future.
"I don't have time for extensive coaching sessions."
Tony understands the demands on husbands. His coaching is strategically designed to maximize impact while respecting your time constraints. You'll receive focused guidance that fits into your schedule.
"I'm afraid this might make things worse."
Tony's approach starts with small, proven steps that build positive momentum. You won't be asked to make dramatic changes that could backfire. Instead, you'll implement targeted strategies designed to create immediate improvements.
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"The practical strategies Tony shared fit into my busy life and gave me confidence to lead positive change in our marriage. My only regret is not starting years ago."
—David R.
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"I'm not a feelings guy, but Tony helped me understand what my wife actually needed from me without making me feel inadequate. Our marriage has never been stronger."
—Michael T.
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"After 12 years of marriage, we were at the breaking point. Tony's coaching gave me specific actions to take that completely transformed how my wife and I connect. For the first time in years, she's reaching out to me instead of pulling away."
— Jeff M.
Take the first step toward the extraordinary marriage you both deserve.
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